Making the Invisible Tangible

Logic Meets Energetic Sensing

I often meet people—both men and women—who have a deep longing for change but get lost in the abstract. They can feel that something is wrong and that something else and more is possible, but the intellect stands in the way of understanding it.

My role is to be the cognitive bridge-builder and the one who sees you without judgment. Where my partner, Mette, works deeply intuitively and somatically ("Bottom-Up"), my strength lies in creating the logical framework ("Top-Down"). With Mette, you get "cleared out"; with me, increased awareness is created. I ensure that your experiences do not remain fleeting moments but land as lasting changes in your everyday life. I translate what might seem like "woo-woo" into a language and structure that your logical brain can accept and act upon.

The Transparent Mirror: I See Your "True Self"

I do not work with guesswork. I work with merging and resonance. This requires me to keep my own field extremely clear and clear up my own personality so I can be a pure instrument when you walk through the door.

When we work together, I use my field to sense what is happening in yours. I don't just see your blockages—where your consciousness "loops"—I also see your potential, your true self, and what is hiding. Clients often describe it as a deep recognition:

"Finally, someone sees right through me and understands me without me having to explain myself." (Woman, 46 years old)

It is not an exposure that calls for shame. It is a relief that gives you permission to explore what is happening inside you. I help you illuminate the blind spots you cannot see yourself and understand the complex relationships you are stuck in. Together, we create strategies for your next move.

Mastery of Your Own Field: Concrete Tools

Many come to me because they struggle to stand firm when they are with others—especially if the relationships are dysfunctional or demanding. I train you specifically in energetic mastery. You learn to:

• Pull your field home: So you don't leak into others or become a sponge.

• Discern: What is mine, and what have I taken on from others?

• Set boundaries: Not just with words, but with your radiance.

The Safe Masculine Space

For Women: I offer something that can be a rarity: A masculine presence entirely without an agenda. I am not here to "fix" you. I am not here to lecture you. And I do not "want" anything from you. This creates a space where your feminine power and anger are welcome and desired.

For Men: I meet men just as equally in their vulnerability and openness. I meet you in seeing your deepest needs. In this space without judgment, you can learn to know your own emotions authentically—free from performance, assessment, hierarchy battles, or the need to compete.

I offer a state of being. A space where I can hold your entire emotional register so you can be seen and met exactly as you are. This creates the safety needed for you to dare to see yourself and let something deeper step forward and work through you.

From Darkness to "Rock Steady"

I am not a theorist or therapist in the classical sense. I have walked the entire path myself through deep physical pain, meaninglessness, and masculine closure. I have tested the methods on my own body and am my own "Crash Test Dummy." It is about the ability to stand as an unshakable anchor in your own life, even when the sea of emotions rages around you.

Integration: Spirituality Must Work on a Tuesday

At The Magdalene Effect, we do not celebrate "Spiritual Bypass." For us, only one thing counts: Does it work in your daily life?

Your reality must stand intact and respected - but also expect that something can be transformed into deeper insight and your worldview may be challenged. My task is to ensure that the insight you gain on the couch when you "go to Mette" is translated into action and inner understanding. I call it "the groundwork" (rugbrødsarbejdet). This is where the magic becomes reality.

Welcome to a space where we unite head and body, logic and soul.